We're supposed to be answering questions. The weak ask the questions and the strong answer them. The weak need information and the strong are the ones with the information. The weak are the followers and the strong are the leaders. Right? Wrong!
To get better is to acknowledge areas we need help in. It's hard to get to that point – just like that innate tendency that men have to avoid asking for directions. This isn't really true, but it's one of those stereotypes we've all heard of. Or that all teenage girls are ditzy. Ok, this one is true... I have parented more than one and my 21 year old is still operating in that mode more than her fair share of the time – made obvious twice in the last two days.